22.Julis there something wrong with your eye?
It never used to bother me, but now it does. Why is it that some men think it’s okay to “wink” at you as a sign of greeting?
Do they think it’s “cool”? They seem to think it’s acceptable & appropriate. I can almost forgive people I’ve known for a while, but those I’ve just been introduced to?!
I get winks in pubs, clubs or bars. That’s fine, the place is a virtual meat market.
If boys happen to read this please remember the following points:
You do not wink at your interviewer.
You do not wink at your colleagues when you pass each other in the hall.
You do not wink when you’re introduced to someone.
You only wink when you think you’re so fucking hot that I’d be weak at the knees I’ll hire you.
You only wink if you’re the hot guy of my fantasy.
You only wink if your eye has an involuntary reflex.
If you do not have a condition, then stop.
If you cannot read minds & don’t know what the heck women think of you (in that way), then stop with the winking!
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i agree auee. i personally find winking as an inappropriate way of greeting. major turn off. the only winks i can handle are those from my husband, or when GIRL friends have something interesting to say.
anyway, here’s a friendly wink ;-)
I have a reverse feeling about winking. hahaha! It used to bother me when I was much, much younger; but now at my age, I’d be happy to even get a look from guys. I’d really be flattered to get that WINK. Ahhh, matanda na kasi!
I agree with you, it depends really what kind of relationship exists between two people. But meeting in the hall? That is not an acceptable wink unless you two are sharing a secret.
Hmmm…sino ba ito, Auee and why the “secrecy” about what really happened?
Here’s to you girl friend,
haha. i used to have a boss who winks and it grosses me out. feeling gwapo, chaka naman.
you’re interviewee winked at you? methinks he got the idea from Lee, the apprentice winner.
cess, I have no problem getting winked at but only from those I actually like. I just find it very unprofessional when colleagues do it esp if we’re not even having a banter.
yarn, that’s one way of looking at it
juls, different people at different times. No secret. Medyo napraning lang ako dun sa bagong consultant sa office. I don’t know him, I saw him in the kitchen with our HR & I turned to him to acknowledge his existence, then he nods &
at the same time… wwhhyyy?? 
Snowballed na from there coz it always happen. Nakakairita po. 
denden, it happened last year. It was cringeworthy. And I feel he thinks he’s so cool or handsome. But gaaaddd
How inappropriate was that, wink & flirt during your interview?
I wish I can say that it is the Brit way, but yes it can be annoying sometimes… buti sana kung cute nga as you said
Hahaha… this is so funny… especially the involuntary reflex.
I don’t like guys who wink at me too… parang nakakabastos.