mistaken identity or sexism?
Saturday, June 9th, 2007My probationary period is over & thus like an acceptance to some exclusive membership, some of my benefit certificates started arriving. Goody.
Then I opened the healthcare policy. Three (3) things were wrong with.
First. It was addressed to hubby when I’m supposed to be the main policy holder.
Second. I was not even mentioned in the policy, just my husband & pogiBoy.
Third. It was missing the dental & optical plans.
Total screw up. Our company hired a benefits service company to handle all our benefit packages. I can only surmise that when I emailed our administrative staff to “do not include my hubby & son on my healthcare plan”, it was interpreted either by the service company or the health care provider that my hubby, being a man, is the member of the technology team not Mrs.
The service’ account manager called me to clarify what happened & then tried to get away by saying the original instruction was to include all family members. I asked her how that explains my missing name & my husband being the policy holder?
I could, of course, be jumping to conclusions here but it’s happened several times to me before. I work in IT so I must be a man. Letters addressed to Mr D S…, my hubby’s name is hubby! And he doesn’t work in Central London, he’s a nurse, people!
Funny though sometimes I get addressed as Dr, too. Why? Who knows.

